Researchers have discovered many treatments for cancer over the past 30 years. Many patients are cured or their cancer is managed so that they can continue to live very high-quality lives. The word cancer used to be associated with death. However, many cancers now are considered chronic diseases. This means that even though the cancer may be incurable, it may be managed through medicine, lifestyle changes, or even just watchful waiting, which means you'll be monitored by your healthcare provider for a period of time without receiving treatment.
Obviously, some cancers are associated with poorer outcomes. Being afraid and angry about your cancer is natural. However, you and your family can take steps to help you continue to get the most out of life. You also will need to make important decisions to help your loved ones after you are gone. ACS and NCI have resources for helping you and your family through the final stages of life.
You should manage your emotions in a healthy way throughout your cancer experience. A positive attitude alone may not be enough to cure your disease, but reducing stress can improve your quality of life. ACS has resources and advice for coping with a cancer diagnosis.