How to Talk With Friends and Others

Your friends are concerned about you. However, they may not know the best way to approach you, and they may ask you questions that you don't want to answer right now.

How much to say, when to say it, and how to say it is your decision. If you feel that you don't have the energy to repeat your story to numerous friends, you may choose to use a Web site such as the CaringBridge® or CarePagesTM to post periodic updates.

You may turn to people beyond your friends to find support. Such groups often are offered through local hospitals, churches, or other organizations. ACS has resources for finding support in your community.

If you prefer online discussions, you can blog on Web sites such as The Wellness Community.

Regardless of how or when you choose to talk with your friends or find support from other sources, know that

  • You are not alone.
  • Many resources exist to help you process all of the information around you.
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